tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336643719537144495.post6876866984927831326..comments2023-11-27T16:58:56.996-08:00Comments on Off and On: The Alaska Parkinson's Rag: "Parkie", an Improper Noun? Peter Dunlap-Shohlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06286710554254177150noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336643719537144495.post-86637774142558224452017-05-16T02:09:20.272-07:002017-05-16T02:09:20.272-07:00You asked if another disease or disorder gets simi...You asked if another disease or disorder gets similar treatment by using a nickname for its sufferers. Autism and Asperger's are great examples of this. Their sufferers are referred to as "auties" and "aspies", respectively. I have Asperger's, and as far as I know these terms aren't controversial or seen as insulting to sufferers of autism spectrum disorders. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336643719537144495.post-5836234016519796862017-01-09T18:33:33.067-08:002017-01-09T18:33:33.067-08:00Hi Peter, I have thought of this often. I think y...Hi Peter, I have thought of this often. I think you hit on it. It can be said with endearment and often is within our P.D. community in Inland California. The rub seems to be when some speak of others, and seem to be trivializing the condition as something that "doesn't kill you" and "you just need to exercise more," it makes one want to say, "Please don't call me that."<br /><br />I believe a patient should be free to use it in reference to his/herself and when speaking of a friend they know is comfortable with it in reference to their disease struggle. A medical professional should not use it in treating a patient, and the spouse of another patient should not use it as a generalization in speaking of P.D. sufferers in general.<br /><br />A patient who writes to inform others about Parkinson's, or another who is sharing orally in a support group meeting, should be examples of an acceptable use of the term. Some are more sensitive than others. I know some patients who hate this reference and several others that have no problem with it whatsoever.<br /><br />I find that the word "patients" works well in place of this word when it is a sensitive atmosphere. <br /><br />Just my thoughts. Thanks for raising this, my friend. DanPatient-Onlinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10765574230234798155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336643719537144495.post-58943588649694415912017-01-09T12:52:44.912-08:002017-01-09T12:52:44.912-08:00Thanks all, for your comments. I got about halfway...Thanks all, for your comments. I got about halfway through writing this post, and suddenly had blogger's remorse. Was this really worth the time it was taking to think this through? Judging from what you wrote and comments I have seen elsewhere, I'm surprised to say it was. This word truly arouses some people. The lesson for a blogger is a heartening one: Words matter.Peter Dunlap-Shohlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06286710554254177150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336643719537144495.post-78113616193937561572017-01-07T08:44:22.565-08:002017-01-07T08:44:22.565-08:00Thank you for sorting this out for us, Peter. As a...Thank you for sorting this out for us, Peter. As a Parkie, I agree. None of us mean to minimize our miserable disease with a (silly) word, but a little levity can be bonding and can be good medicine. And, when I've called myself a "Parkie" to someone without PD, I've watched the worry lines on their face disappear for a moment, and they smile. That's worth something, too, unless we want our friends and acquaintances to be in a perpetual state of feeling sorry for us.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16598693809167762270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336643719537144495.post-90038715160119499272017-01-07T06:48:13.447-08:002017-01-07T06:48:13.447-08:00I agree. Well said.
From a fellow parkie.I agree. Well said.<br />From a fellow parkie.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02194740067178712587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336643719537144495.post-40452142663631396312017-01-07T05:12:22.891-08:002017-01-07T05:12:22.891-08:00I know only one person who uses this nickname. Fun...I know only one person who uses this nickname. Funny, every time he says it, I wince. Yet, I've never said anything because he's had the disease longer than me. If somebody used the name who didn't suffer from the disease, it would sound trite and perhaps even lacking in respect to both the disease and to me. We don't give our enemies cute nicknames. I'm David. It's Goliath. I go out and fight him every single day. In the end, he is likely to win, but that doesn't keep me from slinging stones at him every chance I get.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01929600147824569461noreply@blogger.com